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Some of you may be thinking, "I'm better off just parenting on my own". If it is safe for your child to be with your co-spouse, you're wrong. According to research, children are better adjusted in several different domains when their parents have joint custody, compared to sole-custody. They are better adjusted in their relationships, self-esteem, emotions, and display less conflict. Therefore it is crucial to try to co-parent, for your child's well-being (3).
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Divorce can bring on immense amounts of stress and problem behaviors in children. Here are a few tips to help alleviate this time for your child and become the best co-parent you can be.
Be mindful of different rules
Living in two different houses with different rules can be very confusing for a child. Be mindful of this and remember to give them grace if they mix up the rules.
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Accept
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You must accept that your child might follow different rules in your co-spouse's house. ​​
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Give your child grace ​
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Instead of getting angry or punishing your child, explain why you have this rule for your house, and encourage them to follow it​
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